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Writer's pictureMichele Figuereo

"Stop Waiting for Permission to Discover Your Best Self!"


girl looking at path moving forward
Girl on path journey to her best self

Hey there, ever catch yourself waiting for someone to notice your awesome skills and unique talents? Yeah, me too. It's like we're all hoping to be discovered, and there's this weird mix of wanting recognition but also trying to stay humble about it.


But you know what? Maybe it's time for a mindset shift. Instead of playing the waiting game, let's take charge of uncovering our own potential. Picture this: sitting with a mix of humility and confidence, fully aware that we've got something valuable to bring to the table – something that can make a real difference to the community around us.


So, scrap the waiting around for an invitation. It's time to dive into the adventure of self-discovery. Yeah, I get it; it's not the easiest journey. It's a bit scary and, let's be real, pretty damn hard. But trust me, it's not just possible; it's absolutely necessary.


Start by giving yourself a good look in the mirror – metaphorically, of course. Forget seeking validation from others; let's stop relying on external reassurance. It's almost like when we were kids, venturing out on our own but needing that occasional check-in with the folks to make sure we're on the right track.


Now, here's the thing: how do we become our own cheerleaders when it comes to pursuing our passions, interests, and talents? It begins with a simple act – giving ourselves permission. Repeat after me: "I am worth it, and making this a priority in my life is totally okay."


Let's face it; many of us might be living out roles that were assigned by others. You know, those labels that don't always align with who we really are – like being told we're super extroverted when we're actually craving some introvert time. It's time for some serious soul-searching to reconnect with our authentic selves.


And then there's the whole cultural conditioning bit. Maybe you've been told, "You're a woman; therefore, you must be nurturing and an awesome mom." Sure, that might be true for some, but for others, it's like we've unconsciously adopted a role that doesn't quite fit.

So here's the bottom line: it's time to break free from the waiting game, embrace self-discovery, and give yourself the credit you truly deserve. You've got unique gifts, and the world is waiting for you to share them. Ready to take the plunge? It might be a bit wild, but trust me, it's a journey worth taking.

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